Shucks lodo, I was hoping that wouldn't happen. I know it's tough DBing while living together, they have all those constant reminders of our daily trifes to set them off! You know those horrible things - morning breath, toothpaste in the sink, dirty socks that didn't make the dirty clothes pile, and GASP! we TOUCH them! Of course none of that reality would happen in their fantasy world with the OP.

Your W seems very confused (understatement). She brings all her stuff back home, and then you have a big R talk and she leaves. I know you can't make her stay, but along with that I hear you say so often 'leave if you want' or 'it's ok for you to go'. What if you did a 180 and asked her to come back, stay and let's get help, focus on the positives.
Do you know where she moved to?

I haven't started a new thread, I have to get my mind in a better place. Maybe then I can start a thread with something positive.

Live your life while you are still living.
Riding the trail less traveled.