GF, the continuance sounds like a wonderful idea! You won't be in limbo for another 4-6 months, yet I know you didn't want to feel that you hadn't given the marriage every chance and this will be doing that. And you told H this will be his last chance so if he doesn't make any changes, hopefully that can give you the closure that you need and didn't yet have! Do you feel happy about this b/c it sounds like it was a good decision? Karen