W not angry any more and wants to work on the M

[Lanzo]

Hi GFI,

It seems like we have to follow the holy grail in our quest for truth and enlightenment about forgivness, I'm tending to agree that one man's solution to forgiveness doesn't necessarily fit another. I've been given some definitions which I can't agree 100% with but I've got a better Idea of how to approach things with the feedback I've received so far

You've just reminded me of something I mentioned earlier and that's rebuilding trust, that has to fit along side healing the hurt in the relationship which is all part of the same healing, forgiving, moving on process.

As with most thing even DB'ing, the (forgiving ) process has to be adapted to fit the individual situation, forgive in whatever way works for you and your situation.


Lan