Sorry to see you feeling down - but what happened with the Retro work you both were doing? We are not dialoging anymore either - but we TALK constantly about our feelings and where our head is at (many times per day). It seems that your the one pulling away this time and you need to figure yourself out - maybe you two could start writing again about what is REALLY eating at you...
I said last night that our interactions almost seem to GOOD to be true and that I am waiting to be blown out of the water once again (those are only my fears that I keep at bay almost daily - they have subsided as each week goes by)...
Hang in there you have come to far and you really need to include your H in your thoughts - you cannot assume he's in the same place as you...
Take care!
HB
Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10 8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth 2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home First Thread Surviving Separation Now Piecing
