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Hi Bill!!

Yes, this is totally different from a year ago. Much better.

Hope you are well.

Patti: Yep, time is what it takes and not on our clocks, either.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19
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he came over and we sat outside most of the time. he was more talkative today as well.

when i walked him out to the car, he was quick to get in and shut the door again but we said our i love you's and i blew him a kiss and that was the end of it.

oh well


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19
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we texted back and forth lastnight.

here is what he said lastnight

he did not kiss me goodbye because he is so attracted to me and would have lost control

can't wait until we are together and he said we will be together when it is the right time

lots of i love you type stuff as well.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19
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Quote:
he is so attracted to me and would have lost control

WHAT I WOULD GIVE TO HEAR THAT....


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest

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OMG, Me too....I would love to hear some kind words...haven't heard words that he was so attracted to me in years.....hhhhh........ \:\(

my time will come...

SF; I'm so happy for you...you have to be on cloud nine and when the time is right you are going to be in such awwww.....I'm jealous

I am learning how to be still though...I hope it pays off.


Treese


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H 49
M 45
D 23, D17, S12
M 25 T 31
01/07 OW H at my door w/proof
Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07
Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass,
Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9
11/08 pos.paternity




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he is being so sweet!

he texted me this morning just before I took D16 to school telling me he loves me.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
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I know, it all sounds mushy and I did leave out the really juicy tidbits BUT I am posting so that we get a glimpse of this MLCer's mind.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19
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And I am so glad you are...I need to understand why their minds are mush.....thank you so much...

Treese


Treese

H 49
M 45
D 23, D17, S12
M 25 T 31
01/07 OW H at my door w/proof
Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07
Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass,
Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9
11/08 pos.paternity




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I DO GET ILY'S, I GET "IM HERE 4-EVER....YOU LET ME HOME SO NOW YOU ARE STUCK WITH ME. I LOVE YOU SOOO MUCH. IM SO HAPPY IM HOME" JUST NO INTAMCY


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest

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Well here is another revelation from H. We were having a good conversation and

I asked him if OW knows where his heart really is and he said yes, and then asked me to pray for her.

Of course I said I would.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19
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