I strongly believe that my W loves me very much and all her pain comes from this decision she has made to leave our marriage. Tree, I believe that. I feel similarly about my decision. She us hurting but cannot bear to reverse herself. She is cutting her nose off to spite her face, and she is cursing me the entire time. (It's all my fault, you see)
I agree with this as well. My question now is how in the world can they ever see there's a way back? That reversing is not giving up on something she needs to do for herself and she's not letting herself or anyone else down by doing so? Do they think they've come too far now to just drop everything, and by doing so it would make them feel weak and beaten and like a failure? Do they actually feel TRAPPED in the decision to leave now?
Me:37 WAW:35 M:10 T:15 Ds:9, 5 She Dropped Bomb:9/02/07 Both still at home
