Don't listen to anyone who tells you to give up. Only you will know when you have had enough. You are just in the first inning, Marcum...it isn't time to throw in the towel yet!
Go back and read all of the posts in this thread, especially mine from yesterday at 6:37am, and the one from Was2sad, from Thursday at 8:17pm.
You have zero control. Accept that, follow her lead (even if she doesn't do anything) and work hard on getting a life. Sitting around, climbing the walls, wondering what she is doing, what she is thinking, etc. will drive you crazy and send your thinking into a spiral.
Have no expectation, and really look hard for the tiniest things that show progress (baby steps).
For instance, she wasn't responding to your texts. You made an assumption, which turned out to be incorrect. She did contact you after all. Baby step.
She wanted to go to church with you. Baby step.
Don't focus on the things you don't want to happen...focus on the forward movement, no matter how small.
The only way you will get there, the only chance you have, is to be consistently strong and confident...and do not apply any pressure at all. That includes sending her info about coming events. That includes sending a barrage of texts or emails.
Just back off, relax (I know, hard) and work on Marcum for a while.
Me: 54 Her: 50 and sexy as hell M: 32yrs T: 34yrs Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection" Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire" She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08! Everything's GREAT!
