The problem is that the OM is the first person in her life (about 8 previous sexual partners before me) to press all the right buttons during their PA. I am not an expert by any means in MLC but I believe in her MLC she is letting go of some of the guilt her very controlling father passed on to her in her youth.
Is it possible she is relaxing and enjoying sex for the first time? She is in love or lust with this man and although we are under the same roof I am not allowed near her. Very hard to compete, if I knew what the attraction was I would certainly try. I am certainly listening and validating but it is early days she has known OM three months and I found out about it one month ago.
