I'm kinda in same boat as you...my H's OW is married and her H suspects there is someone else but does not know who. I so wanna raise my hand and say "ohhh let me tell..let me tell". How ever I am not and am not sure if this is the "right thing"?
So I sit on it ..and watch and wait...
I do not know the OW or her husband either..only know OF them and know they all work at same company...messy, messy, messy.
M 44 H 44 M 22 yrs D 20 D 16 D 13 Bomb 1 8/25/07 Bomb 2 9/30/07 Left 10/01/07 OW..yup
Me? I'm scrambling to save my family. My H is just scrambling.