Here's the link to your post on Newcomers....and since you're so new....I think Newcomers is the very best place for you to find solution oriented ideas....some great brainstorming goes on over there.
Thanks for your help with the link. I think I've posted a few non-workable links already.
I don't know the husband at all, I have never even seen the OW. (The reverse telephone look-up is a blessing and a curse.)
A counselor (pre DB) had advised me that I might want to consider contacting the OW. He reasoned that my marriage is already broken, that if the OW hasn't yet left her marriage she might want to consider the wisdom of giving it all up for a man who is willing to walk away from a 28 year relationship without even trying to repair it.
Me: 59 H: 59 Together: 28 years Married: 25 years in August "There may be someone else" 12/26/07 H signed a one year lease 4/1/08 H moved out 5/11/08 H beginning to show a tiny amount of interest 7/5/08 Is it possible that he is courting me? 9/30/08
