You have been a valued member of the Divorce Busting Community for a long time. However, recently your posts are getting out of hand. They are mean and crude and absolutely not appropriate for our community. What you are saying about SG is totally off base and will not be allowed to continue.
Consider this an official warning. If you want to retain your posting privileges, now is the time to take the high ground and clean up your act. I'd really like to see you around for a long time.
Regards,
Virginia Peeples Vice President The Divorce Busting Center P O Box 271, Boulder, Colorado 80306
AmyCs reply:
No worries, Virginia. I wrote my goodbye post just a little while ago and left the boards.
I respectfully disagree with you about Sg.
She's turned the boards into a trainwreck with all the new forums and threads, her selective banning (without warnings such as mine), UNexplained UNbanning - thereby suggesting they weren't legitimate bans in the first place and finally, the fluff she's feeding real people with real problems who have to do a whole lot more than just THINK themselves back into happy marriages or lives after divorce. I could go on but why? You need to get people like JamesJohn back that actually MODERATE instead of DICTATE. Sg came down without even having personal relationships with the posters and with her broad sweeping and obviously sanctioned actions, threw everyone for a loop and situated herself right smack in the middle of our very real lives and very real problems. That said, I DO see how we could benefit from a little DIRECTION and GUIDANCE but the way it was THREATENED to be enacted, and in some cases FORCED, was WRONG to do to your members. The Solution Journals are GREAT. But they need to be corraled.
I do appreciate very much that at least I got a warning, which is more than the others were given. It's quite a shame I had to get nasty today to hear from someone with some power but then of course, it was still just a warning. I baited you, Virginia and this is ALL I got. In my opinion, you need to do something more constructive such as listen to your members. I'll copy my friends so they at least know you warned me and I'm not banned. Perhaps you might consider making that the norm for others in the future...especially people like Sandi. There are many "Sandis" out there, Virginia.
Thank you for your email.
AmyC
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I'll stand here with Amy in this threat.
I'll post up now and say if you ban Amy you had better ban me cause I'll post with a vengance, Amy is right and just look at the support in this thread. RCR et:al ( is this correct Amy) it's been awhile.
Anyway I digress, Without the words of those like: RCR, Snooderly, Bworl, Lissie, Fig, AmyC, Was2sad, Sofaraway only to mention a very few by name. I wouldn't have survived the MLC storm. Yea I bought the books, but it was the forum that was a godsend to me!
To: Virginia
I would just like to know a few things.
Where have you been in the last 2 years?
I see what you said to Amy but I would really like to know the BASIS for such?
And last but not least what is your personal experience with MLC?
Amy has been through MLC and is willing to post her pain for all of us to see and learn from. Now because she VOICES an issue that many here have been having, all of a sudden Amy is S*** on a stick.
Amy is invaluable, get used to it, she has been there and has done that and may be a bit abrupt for it. There's no shame in where Amy comes from and no shame in what Amy has to say, on this or any other topic.
We are dealing in reality here Virginia, it's really simple.
I see SG won't address what she started here, are you here under a different login? If not what is your experience with MLC, or for that matter SG's experience?
