H and I see each other about once a week. Dinner, Lost, video games and a stay over.
He has purchased our tix to Costa Rica. I'm looking forward to that.
The 25yo band mate moved in with him yesterday.
This morning I asked H if his new roommate knew he was seeing me and he said "no. No one knows. it's my secret." I believe he said that if he told anyone, they would probably ask him WTH he was doing.
I am not sure what I think of that.
He still hasn't gotten the 4x4 licensed (long story) so we haven't had a chance to go out and go 4x4ing, but it is on the list of things for us to do. On Presidents day we went out and had lunch, looked at antiques and took a walk along the river. It was quite nice.
and yet...
and yet, I am a secret. I guess I can understand not wanting to have people try to influence you one way or the other and our relationship IS just between the two of us...but...seems that it is creating more distance and more hurdles if we were to reconcile. I guess I feel somehow offended or something.
I would think he would have to spill the beans after we go to costa rica.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
