My W kind of wondered off too during my sons first pinewood derby. Found out later that she wanted to buy mattresses for the kids new beds at OM's place.
Originally Posted By: kturnernc
I still am getting the vibes that she is trying not to think about the past 15 years of our relationship at all. She is trying to push me out of her mind and life. But I think she is coming to the realization that she cannot do that. I will always be there for the kids, no matter what she does. I will do whatever it takes to be there.
I think if we can have time, they will slowly think more about what they are doing to a good family. You are also going to go through doubts and depression during the waiting. Just hang in there if there is any possibility in your mind that she may come back. In the end, you need to be able to say to yourself that you did all you could to save the M.