Thank you so much for your thoughtful post.... and taking the time to share all of your thoughts!!
I am so glad that you had a funny muffin moment with BF!!! Hooray! Now he can secretly (ie he doesn't know it) be part of our muffin club!
In the beginning, I felt like something might happen in March. And then that kind of evolved into a plan for 4 months of NC ending in march.
(OMG--TODAY I am officially at four months exactly of NC!)
But I am really trying to listen to the Voice... hope that doesn't sound too crazy. I am still planning to wait 2 more months unless I feel a strong indication I should do something different. I want to give him more time and space to possibly make a move towards me.
I really really haven't had any news at all of him. I know where he was living at the time of the bomb, but for all I know, that may have changed. There are a couple people who are my acquaintances and his close friends that I could contact if I wanted to ask around, but word would get right back to him... and I don't feel like that's right.
Am I making any sense??
Congratulations on all the awesome developments with BF today, Ali!
