Help Me Act AS IF, Part 3

[seekpeaceofmind]

I'm sorry that you've been having a tough time. . . .

I start feeling more detached and I get scared and then I realize that my H is more detached than ever and seems NOT to yo-yo back to me at all.

I think the key is to welcome the detachment as a necessary part of the process for both of you - I don't have a great analogy here. . .
I've been reading the Eckhart Tolle book "A New Earth". Here's a quote from it:
"Whatever you fight, you strengthen, and what you resist, persists."