My W is involved in a PA with a guy 500 miles away. She denies it is physical but knowing she has booked a flight to he BF town... Anyway, W met him online after our problems started. Ihave since found that the problem is the result of our 14 month old son. I became a very serious person when he was conceived. I have since realized this. My W discovered the internet in Jan. She met her BF by just looking up profiles. I do not know when but the affair turned to phone calls then to actually her making a trip (or 2) to Chicago. this is about halfway. She has denied PA, but has told me they talk. That is an understatement she has gone through at least 1000 minutes of phone cards. I know the relationship has become a PA. As I said above she has booked a flight to visit him in a couple of weeks. Even though she has BF, she still prowls the internet chat rooms and instant messaging. She has become addicted. I have witnessed her online not 15 minutes after coming home. I am not at home but our S is. I know the affair will not last but her addictiion may affect our son. I have to find a way to get her to counselling. She refuses. I cannot compete with her BF or the internet. I am a loving husband who has made mistakes, her BF's are perfect. I cannot and should not have to compete. I can only be there for her when the fog clears.
