You have been a valued member of the Divorce Busting Community for a long time. However, recently your posts are getting out of hand. They are mean and crude and absolutely not appropriate for our community. What you are saying about SG is totally off base and will not be allowed to continue.
Consider this an official warning. If you want to retain your posting privileges, now is the time to take the high ground and clean up your act. I'd really like to see you around for a long time.
Regards,
Virginia Peeples Vice President The Divorce Busting Center P O Box 271, Boulder, Colorado 80306
AmyCs reply:
No worries, Virginia. I wrote my goodbye post just a little while ago and left the boards.
I respectfully disagree with you about Sg.
She's turned the boards into a trainwreck with all the new forums and threads, her selective banning (without warnings such as mine), UNexplained UNbanning - thereby suggesting they weren't legitimate bans in the first place and finally, the fluff she's feeding real people with real problems who have to do a whole lot more than just THINK themselves back into happy marriages or lives after divorce. I could go on but why? You need to get people like JamesJohn back that actually MODERATE instead of DICTATE. Sg came down without even having personal relationships with the posters and with her broad sweeping and obviously sanctioned actions, threw everyone for a loop and situated herself right smack in the middle of our very real lives and very real problems. That said, I DO see how we could benefit from a little DIRECTION and GUIDANCE but the way it was THREATENED to be enacted, and in some cases FORCED, was WRONG to do to your members. The Solution Journals are GREAT. But they need to be corraled.
I do appreciate very much that at least I got a warning, which is more than the others were given. It's quite a shame I had to get nasty today to hear from someone with some power but then of course, it was still just a warning. I baited you, Virginia and this is ALL I got. In my opinion, you need to do something more constructive such as listen to your members. I'll copy my friends so they at least know you warned me and I'm not banned. Perhaps you might consider making that the norm for others in the future...especially people like Sandi. There are many "Sandis" out there, Virginia.
