Finally got around to checking my messages. One VM was from Idiot Ex. Remember, he had been calling Ash, who had told him she was with me in Florida. This time he was calling about Ryan and asking for the nurse. OK, first off - the nurses have their own phone number and he knows it. Second, we have had voice mail from the phone company for years. He carried on as if we had a machine - yelling into the phone "HELLO, HELLO - ANYBODY THERE??? Kaitlyn, I mean - oops that's not your name, I mean "Katy" - are you there - ANYBODY??? HELLO HELLO???" I had to laugh it was as if he was a drowning victim or something. Of course no one heard and no one can get my VM without the password. AND HE KNOWS THIS!!!