Hey Short, thanks for coming by my thread and checking up on me. It's nice to know how much people care. I am doing ok since telling our son. Worst night of my life, he was devastated. He is doing better, but with h still here, and the both of us getting along, I think he is in denial. It will not hit him until his dad moves out.
Short, you have every right to have expectations of how your h should act throughout this. Those expectations are reasonable and the standards you demand are those that you have risen to during this time. Anything less is not acceptable.
Remember that you are a good person, that you deserve to be treated with respect and compassion. Remember that you have done nothing to be ashamed of and that you are a person of worth.