Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!

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Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread! One Day #1373949 03/03/08 12:46 AM
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AliSuddenly Member A Joined: Jan 2008 Posts: 5,270	Hey T...thats why I came to post! To see if you had any thoughts about contacting your BF because I remembereed that you talked about spring break at March. Great minds think alike OneDay! I really identified with what you said when you said... Quote: This might sound retarded, but I am actually extremely grateful for this crisis. I have learned so much about myself, & figured out so many things I never would have had to face otherwise. I couldnt agree more...you especially have opened yourself up to learning about yourself and worked hard to examine yourself. And Kalni is right, only amazing things can come of this, whether your BF realises what he lost, or sees the new T and wants that all over again, or whether your destiny is to take all these lessons and another man of your dreams to benefit from how enlightened and loving you have become. I think Essie was saying too it was the best thing that ever happened to her, she is 100% happier now than when she was with her H. Well for me, I wouldnt say I was happier, but I certainly have learnt so much and have so much to be grateful to my BF for for leaving me. I had certain fears and phobias that I had carried around for 18 years..and the devastation of him withdrawing his affection from me made that fear leave my body. And I have been freed up as a result! And I can see clearly the mistakes I made in my R and in all my Rs and hopefully wouldnt ever revert to the old me..as I think you have been learning about your style of emotional honesty. Dont forget because of your age, you are in a critical period, the bit before the Saturn Return is a pivotal moment in life, which prepares us for the next phase, where we truly mature and grow..and you are doing all this great work to be ready to do that! SO...any thoughts about contacting your BF? Do you feel ready yet?? And is there noone you know that has contact with him that you could put some feelers out and find out where hes at in life, what hes up to?? Its just that theres been no news at all of him..do you even know where he is living or working? I'm sorry I cant join in your Muffin making club!! I thought of you today...I saw some muffins when we bought tea and so I bought my BF one!! It was blueberry or something (and bran !!??) and I had chocolate, but then gave him the last bit of mine, which he got all over his top lip and I was able to make him really laugh because I told him he had a Dirty Sanchez (I'm not explaining, its rude! but funny) so thanks T ! You made me make my BF laugh. Thinking of you and thankyou for your kind words of support on my thread, its been all a bit up and down this past 2 weeks for me ! I am a Big Dipper all of my own. Ali xxx Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread

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Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	02/05/08 02:36 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	02/05/08 02:40 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	02/05/08 02:45 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	02/05/08 02:47 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	02/05/08 02:48 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	02/05/08 03:22 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	02/06/08 04:29 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	02/06/08 04:35 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	AliSuddenly	02/06/08 12:25 PM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	ba065	02/06/08 04:28 PM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	02/07/08 01:49 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	Beth 83	02/08/08 01:27 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	AliSuddenly	02/08/08 11:05 PM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	Kalni	02/10/08 09:13 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	One Day	02/10/08 05:50 PM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	02/10/08 06:56 PM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	02/10/08 07:12 PM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	yellowrose	02/10/08 10:23 PM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	AliSuddenly	02/10/08 11:49 PM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	02/12/08 02:20 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	Kalni	02/12/08 07:51 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	Essie	02/12/08 11:17 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	W2G	02/12/08 02:14 PM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	ba065	02/14/08 10:39 PM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	02/17/08 04:41 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	02/17/08 04:39 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	02/17/08 04:19 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	02/17/08 04:35 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	02/17/08 04:35 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	02/17/08 04:36 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	02/17/08 04:43 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	ba065	02/17/08 05:44 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	W2G	02/18/08 11:36 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	Kalni	02/18/08 01:44 PM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	One Day	02/18/08 08:28 PM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	AliSuddenly	02/19/08 12:05 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	02/19/08 02:05 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	02/19/08 02:11 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	Beth 83	02/19/08 11:21 PM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	02/21/08 04:27 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	W2G	02/21/08 05:25 PM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	One Day	02/21/08 09:18 PM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	02/22/08 02:34 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	One Day	02/22/08 07:06 PM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	02/23/08 06:14 PM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	02/23/08 06:14 PM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	One Day	02/23/08 06:28 PM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	02/23/08 06:45 PM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	Kalni	02/24/08 03:55 PM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	02/25/08 05:53 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	AliSuddenly	02/25/08 09:09 PM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	Virtually_Handsome	02/25/08 10:33 PM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	One Day	02/24/08 07:38 PM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	W2G	02/24/08 09:27 PM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	Beth 83	02/25/08 10:46 PM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	02/26/08 02:50 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	02/26/08 02:51 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	02/26/08 02:54 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	Virtually_Handsome	02/26/08 05:05 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	Beth 83	02/27/08 02:54 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	W2G	02/28/08 02:52 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	03/01/08 03:07 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	W2G	03/01/08 03:15 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	03/01/08 03:20 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	03/01/08 03:30 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	Virtually_Handsome	03/01/08 05:56 PM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	03/01/08 06:01 PM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	03/01/08 06:07 PM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	Kalni	03/01/08 06:50 PM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	One Day	03/02/08 01:00 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	AliSuddenly	03/03/08 12:46 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	03/03/08 03:04 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	W2G	03/03/08 02:52 PM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	bhopeful	03/03/08 06:10 PM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	Kalni	03/03/08 07:36 PM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	ba065	03/03/08 09:43 PM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	03/04/08 04:02 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	03/04/08 04:12 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	Virtually_Handsome	03/04/08 05:29 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	Essie	03/04/08 08:16 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	One Day	03/04/08 10:16 PM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	03/05/08 04:08 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	03/05/08 04:30 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	Beth 83	03/08/08 02:18 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	Kalni	03/08/08 06:38 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	One Day	03/05/08 10:12 PM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	AliSuddenly	03/06/08 05:57 PM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	W2G	03/06/08 11:22 PM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	03/05/08 04:33 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	03/05/08 04:34 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	Virtually_Handsome	03/05/08 05:12 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	03/04/08 03:57 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	03/04/08 03:56 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	03/03/08 02:59 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	03/03/08 02:54 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	03/01/08 03:16 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	02/19/08 01:59 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	02/19/08 01:57 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	02/19/08 01:56 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	02/19/08 01:53 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	02/07/08 01:57 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	Essie	02/07/08 08:34 AM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	AliSuddenly	02/07/08 02:48 PM
Re: Growing in the Dark--Transformer's 2nd thread!	transformer	02/10/08 07:03 PM

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