JJ:

Great idea! My W is is having an EA with a co-worker in Australia. It goes beyond internet as they frequetly talk on the phone. I've had crazy ideas about sending him an email through a email remailer so as to hide the originating location and address it from someone in his company telling him that the human resources department has his number and will come down on him hard if he doesn't stop. Crazy, I know but I also feel with all of my soul that if the OM was out of the picture my W would come running back.

I've also concidered sending my W an email the same way making it look like it was a mistake by the OM. Something that would indicate to her that he was just playing her for a fool.

Unfortunatly, it would be for the wrong reasons. Just thought I get this going. Now I know you all think I'm a psycho but it's hard to deal with when you feel this desperate.

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