I'll look at The Doctors Wife. I didn't like A wedding In Decmber particularly - she has written much better books.

If you have the time and you still have my email I would love a list of good reads - I am always on the look out for a good book.

You description of OW sounds so familiar to my sitch too. Have you managed to let go of your OW feelings a bit now?

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength