Back on the Roller Coaster - OW still around

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fa,

How long was H unemployed? I know that can be hard on a guy, without going through a MLC. It's good that you're reaching out to him but still expecting him to reach out also. It sounds like you're on the recovery road. I don't know about my sich. I fear we will be D'd before we get to that point.

How is D feeling with H around more, bet she is thrilled. Telling D the stories about before you were married was good for H to remember the good times, when they start into MLC they only seem to remember the bad ones. H telling stories of the good times has to be a reminder that there were lots of good times.

Maybe telling H you forgive him again would be best saved for when he asks for your forgiveness. Keep spending more time with him and have more dates.

Mike