Thought I should clarify the end of that last post a bit. She kept talking about leaving which is why I said she should do what she wanted and what would make her feel comfortable. I wasn't encouraging her to leave, but made it known that her leaving wouldn't kill me.
After I posted that, she came in and started talking about going and getting some more of her things from her aunt's. WTF? So confusing.
One thing I realize is that we've had WAY too many R talks lately. I need to get back to a light-hearted, chitchatty space for my own sake of mind. Keep things light and positive. Stay confident. Can't get sucked into her back and forth.
I think it might be time to revisit DR and see where I'm at with my goals. Maybe I should check out SSM? She certainly hasn't rejected me touching her or being close - maybe it's time to remember how to flirt.
