Out of the Blue?

[jandn]

Yea I hear you Ken, sounds like we all are in the same boat. We know what we want but are getting signals otherwise that gets us second guessing ourselves. Dont go down looking, go down swinging! I feel like I dont want to talk to W cause of her tone lots of time. But when I sit around and think about W in her good tone just want to call and hear from her everything is going to be ok.

A pointer I got was when W goes on a rampage about this or that to just calmly point out "well no matter what you say or do, etc (whatever she is doing) that i love you and always will no matter how much you are trying to push me out of this marriage." Hope that helps, hang in there man.