She invited me to her home town to meet her girl friends. She said she was already thinking about who she would fix me up with. Boy am I no where near that stage. I can not even think of that but everyone wants to set me up.
That's what I meant when I said the SSW was always recruiting... I believe it's because they want to substantiate their feelings that they did the right thing by ending their marriage. It seems the less they did to safe their own situation, the harder they work to get others to join the club and "just move on".
I know that my W and her OM at one time contemplated ways of fixing me up with certain "single" women in their SSW, not that they specifically wanted me in their club. OM even once wondered about me and his X.... sick.