Thank you sandi,

Well I dont think he is going to call me or come over today.

I am sure he is in a state of total confusion, about wether to return to work on the marriage or to tell me he would rather just be friends again.

He said he would call & come over this mid-morning and it is now after noon and no sign of him.

I wont pursue him. I will keep you all posted. I hope so bad that he will listen to what I want to say about the booze ruining what we have got started. But I am sure he wont want to hear it.
TIPPER