Thanks for that comment steelersfan. I agree. Knowing that she appears to be very needy might make him question whether he wants to spend the rest of his life with her. I just need to slow down our D process for him to have a chance to realize it.
Another thing in my favor is that she has already a) threatened to break up with him and b) labelled him as being passive/aggressive.
He absolutely HATES labels, and he also doesn't really like non-psychologists making diagnoses.
Me: 59 H: 59 Together: 28 years Married: 25 years in August "There may be someone else" 12/26/07 H signed a one year lease 4/1/08 H moved out 5/11/08 H beginning to show a tiny amount of interest 7/5/08 Is it possible that he is courting me? 9/30/08
