All that being said, I will breathe before I speak, when I am angry. Then I will speak it anyway. I have been to full of sh!t for too long. He is not more worthy than I am.
Kudos for this mindset Grace.
Honesty can never be wrong. I trust that you are wise enough to know that a steady stream of "I'm pissed at you" will ultimately be unproductive. But sometimes you do have to call it like you see it.
There is NEVER a reason to compromise our integrity to win back the affections of a mixed up and wandering spouse.
Just don't forget the love as well.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."