Sandy,

I am feeling your pain.

Your sitch reminds me so much of mine.

Your H is acting like mine did/does.

The inconsistencies, the OW at work (mine is his secretary). She will file sexual harrassment if he leaves her.

The rewriting of history.

The ass he is making out of himself.

The damage to his girls, but not really giving a crap.

Your attitude is right. It has to just play out. Patience and time.

It gets ugly before it gets remotely better.

Hang in there - Hugs

Trusting.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11