The inconsistencies, the OW at work (mine is his secretary). She will file sexual harrassment if he leaves her.
The rewriting of history.
The ass he is making out of himself.
The damage to his girls, but not really giving a crap.
Your attitude is right. It has to just play out. Patience and time.
It gets ugly before it gets remotely better.
Hang in there - Hugs
Trusting.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11