Honey, you SO do not deserve this - well, no one does. You did nothing worse than love and support your husband! FA was right on the money when he said that you did 99.9%of what you could have.
Lisa, I also had to be the one to initiate the D, and I also resisted for the same reason - why should I be the one to do when HE caused the problems??? It goes completely against my values (mind you, he had never hit me). But the D is going to have to be done, sugar, and the sooner the better. Things will be so much better for you with this "man" out of your life.
Originally Posted By: LisaLost
How can he tell people that he is innocent and all he did was push me? He knows what he did- why not just own up to it? He KNOWS what happened- why is he lying?
Because he only cares about HIMSELF. It has NOTHING to do with you. You could have been the 100% perfect wife, and it wouldn't hav changed a thing. He is selfish and only cares about making himself look good. Like my stbx, he seems to have strong narcissistic traits. It's not pretty, but it's about HIM, not YOU - really. I've finally grasped that one myself.
I am praying for you and your sweet children.
Love, Nicola
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