The more you try to get her to respond to your texts, the more you will drive her away.
You only thing you will change in her, is that you will change her from a walk to a RUN.
You seriously need to back off and have ZERO expectations. Stop texting her, even if she says she wants you to. Respond to her texts with short acknowledgements, but don't initiate any of your own for a while.
She is in full control of this situation, accept that and let her set the pace.
This has been very hard for me to learn as well, but man, when I do it, IT WORKS. She needs to feel no pressure at all from you. If there is any hope for her to come back to you, this is the only way it will happen. Thousands have gone before you, and your sitch is not unique.
Back off and let her be. It's the only way. Create some mystery. A major 180 for you would be for you to stop expecting her to respond to your texts.
For example, my W only responds to about 30% of my texts and emails. And my W told me she is coming back!
Me: 54 Her: 50 and sexy as hell M: 32yrs T: 34yrs Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection" Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire" She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08! Everything's GREAT!
