He filed.

[Ophelia]

I'm *this close* to sending him an email right now just to ask him "why now"? I suspect he was just waiting until after my birthday, which was Feb 22, before dropping this bomb on me.

I want to tell him that I figured out some time ago who OW is, and ask if he wants the D so he can M her.

I want to tell him that I'd really hoped we could still be friends, but the way he left it today by saying, "I assume you'll still keep in contact with my mum", means he wants no contact with me at all, despite the fact that we actually got on pretty well when we saw each other again, considering how long it had been since we'd seen each other before that.

I know it'd be the crappiest DBing, which is the only thing stopping me from sending that email, because most of me is just thinking, "Well, it's not like you've got anything left to lose, so why not".