My h text me late last night and said he wants to come over this morning and work on having a REAL friendship with me, & that he is done gambling on our M and that he needs to take care of himself now, and to please not think he is being selfish.
I feel like I need to be the strong one today and that I have to voice my concerns. I need to let him know that it has to either be me or the booze, and until he is sober - I don't think we can have a healthy R.
I don't know if this is the right thing to do or not, but I feel like it is time that he starts to fix him, rather than always pointing the finger at me. TIPPER
