Haven't posted to you before MMC, but you give me hope. I'm a little behind you in my timeline and I'm praying I'll be where you are in a few months. It's really amazing how a spouses attitude can change after a few months of NC with the other person. For me, I'm about 4 weeks into NC (as best I can figure) and WAW hasn't mentioned D in that time period. Don't think I'm out of the woods yet but there is hope.

I know what you mean about taking a break from drinking. One time in my sitch in Oct I had way too much to drink and let WAW have it. Big mistake as WAW and OM were having "trouble" at the time. I think my explosion set me back quite a ways. Just limit yourself for now and once things are back to "normal" you can let go again. That's what I plan on doing.


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.