Joie, Thank You so much!!!! My H did text me last night and said he will come over this morning and we can try to work on having a REAL friendship. He said is done gambling with our M and that he needs to take care of him self now and to please not think he is being selfish.
I have decided that today I need to be strong and tell him that it is either going to be the Booze or Me. It is up to him to fix his problems, and we can never have a healthy relationship until he is sober.I will let him know that I still love him and will do anything to help. (But I am sure he will just run again & keep on drinking until he hits a rock bottom).
It sounds like he has already changed his mind about trying to work on our M - so what do I have to lose. TIPPER
