Hi Kalni,

My actions have never stopped saying ILY to W, I hope she realises this. I think I'm a bit hesitant verbally cos when I say something I mean it as opposed to the way W , WAW women in general (shoot me down if I'm wrong) say what the feel at that moment in time.

Examples, when W told me 2 1/2 years ago the M was over, that was how she felt at that particular moment in time, that wasn't to say the M was over. When she dropped the bomb ILYBNILWY that was how she felt at that moment in time, When she called me waste of space that was how she felt at that moment in time, and I can assure you I'm not a waste of space. When she said ILY at the train station that's how she felt at that moment in time. Can you see what I'm getting at.

For me, if I say you're a waste of space I'll say it cos I mean it, end of story, if I told W I didn't love her that would be the case and we probably wouldn't be together. So I guess this is another case of Venus & Mars, X & Y, Men and Women going in opposite directions. Yes I'm still learning and don't worry I've already got the book (Women are from Venus Men are from Mars).


Lan