I haven't posted on your thread for a long while(In fact you were the first person I offered advice to) cos you seemed to get you act together pretty quickly and have remained solid and consistant in you approach to your W and DB in general. Anyway this little sequence below grabbed my attention especially when W said to the SUV was a loaner, cos I immediately shouted at my computer screen "No Way !!" and I waited with anticipation for your next post.
Originally Posted By: KerryK
D5 blurts out that OM bought mommy a really pretty new car.
Originally Posted By: KerryK
W says it is just a loaner (rental) from the OM for her BD and it is a new Cadillac SUV (Esplande?).
Originally Posted By: KerryK
She came in the big SUV loaner and still does not know whether it belongs to OM
Originally Posted By: KerryK
I dropped D5 off at the afterschool teachers house and the teacher mentioned that the Cadillac SUV was a gift from OM to my W
Originally Posted By: KerryK
She thinks the gift of the $50K plus SUV by OM is weird because she has not committed herself to him.
Originally Posted By: KerryK
One interesting thing she mentioned was that she had thought if she divorced me that she could be with OM until he died from old age (he is almost 68), and then if I was still unattached, possibly get remarried to me. I think she got this idea from her best friend. What a plan!
I know you are very keen for reconsiliation with your W at some stage but all I'd say is make sure you go into it with your eyes wide open, cos this little sequence would have alarm bells ringing in my head.
