They all trash their marriages! They all say the same thing. It's all baloney. Did you think your marriage was good? Do you have good memories? Then keep them. Why should you let his bad juju mess with your memories?
I was talking to my kids the other day and they were spontaneously remembering the good times, and for me, that was proof enough. My spouse is loopy.
M 43 S14 S13 D11 D7 Divorce final: Jan 2009 Making it up as I go....