Once in the house I sat him down, thanked him for coming with me to the intensive, and began to tell him what Michele suggested. He seemed willing to really work on the friendship. As I left he gave me a hug, a kiss on the cheek, and said that we should take these trips more often.
One thing that did baffled me is that he asked me to stay in the home that we own together when he goes to the CHP academy in September. Um if you file won't we be divorced by then, was the thought that crossed my mind. Also he gave no good reason why the divorce hasn't completed if he filed in September as he told Michele. Yup, the papers are still in his glove compartment as of last night, unfiled.
It sounds as if he isn't sure about filing for D. This is good for you. All the more reason to DB very carefully.
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Another thing that I discussed yesterday was making him think I am "up to something". In otherwords make him jealous without actually dating someone. I suppose this would be one of those "act as if" situations.
I would think very carefully before doing this. It's possible it'd backfire. It's one thing to get a life by keeping busy and having a good decent time, but it might give him the "licence" to go dating himself if he thinks you are. -PH
