Struggle with MLC-WAW

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It will not last forever and in the end i know I will be loved and cherished.
Accept it and deal. Also it changes everyday, I feel better every day and i know that my babe is hurting a lot more than me which does not comfort me. I wish I could help her but I know I can not. She is going to need to figure this one out herself. I have also found that not matter what I say she she does not hear me but what I do has a huge impact.

Well said. Your very unlikely to change her mind right now. she is on a journey, it is her journey and it really has very little to do with you. You must stand aside and let her find her way. If she is asking for space, give it to her.

Make your changes for yourself and don't throw them in her face. She will notice on her own and she will react to them when she is ready.

Personally, I think separation is good for these situation. It allows the space and freedom that she thinks that she wants. It also allows her to find out that the grass isn't greener. As long as you live together, she may resent you and believe you are holding her back from her fantasy. However, The big problem with this is that it is hell on the kids.

I feel for you, I have felt the same in the past as you do right now. All of us here have. However, believe me, the pain does dull to the point where it will be your convictions that drive you. There is no magic thing you can say or do. I spent months looking myself. I believe the best thing you can do is nothing. Spend your time working on yourself.