thanks for the welcome all)))))))))))) not a place we want to be but I see that this place can be a place of solace and comfort.

Trying hard not to comfort H nor add to the guilt (at some point he was bewildered at the fact he'd have a debt for quite a few yrs, I tried to bite my tongue but just had to remind him that the debt was a product of his past choices). At the end of that combo the best I could say was that he was able to do a budget that worked before & he could do it again.

I'm excited about the 2 jobs I got in church, for the past years I've done nothing, now I have a few plans and look forward to do new things.


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.