The mistress has more than I can offer

[Starshyne]

My H was doing this as well. Right before he came home for good, he came over to the house to borrow the digital camera (to take pics of OW and her kids I learned later). Before he left, he passionately kissed me (last time we kissed now that I think about it), told me that he was glad I was his wife and not OW and that he will come back to me someday. Then he left for the OW and I didn't see him again for several days. What mixed messages.

Dayana, whenever you are ready, you are going to need to put a stop to him doing this. People kept telling me that, but I wasn't emotionally ready and kept allowing him to ping pong back and forth until I finally said that I had it. It was when I told him that I couldn't take him going back and forth and it was emotionally abusive to me that he started to understand. I understand that you have children, so you would need to set guidelines for seeing them. But he has to choose between women because it is just too difficult for your well being to be in the middle of his game.

Thinking and praying for you,

Sara