You are right, I didn;t expect him to know I went though, so I didn't consider it would be pushing him away.
But you have to understand as crazy as it sounds this was very controlled for me, pre all this junk I would have gone in and dragged him out by the ear for still being there at 3 am. He did send me a text from work today saying just to let you know I am at work or did you already drive by to check....
Ok I did not know that this was an advance for you. It is a good thing that you recognize it though. Ya see his remark WAS JUSIFIED. I know it hurt but this is what I told you he would do. Let go... it hard as you know. It is not easy... if you want easy getting divorced. Don’t know if you have read my sitch but there has been a turn of events there. My Nephew that has been a great help to me is getting divorced now. I have not talked to him yet. Stay with me on this... you have to let go. It’s like giving them rope. By checking up on them it gives them more reason to justify their actions. Yes it is like playing the martyr but if you have followed my sitch you will see how far I have come. I can feel it. I can taste victory. One way or another by the end of this year I will be free of this misery. Take the positives when ya get them and let the negatives go...
Hugs to ya
Dr LOve.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
