The mistress has more than I can offer

[Dayana]

I really need some help to work out the right approach to dealing with H. He comes over, tells me how much he misses the family, hugs and kisses me, then goes off with OW and spends the night with her. He does this repeatedly. I feel like he is just trying to keep me dangling and keep his options open. I feel so angry at his behaviour but I know that part of DBing is to be nice and positive and show your good side - unfortunately I have lost the plot on that again and lashed out again.
I feel that he will maintain this double life thing indefinitely and not make a decision because he simply doesn't want to give up either the family or the OW with the money.
I just cant seem to work out the right strategies to move forward