Thanks for all the good wishes and prayers. I don't think I could make it without all you wonderful folks here.
If I'm an angel (and thanks you for thinking that of me), I have one wing dipped in blood.
D13 went with H to pick up keys and sign his lease. I hope he can get her to talk with him. D15 is here with me. I think I'll ask her to a movie or something.
I'm sorry he decided to leave. However, I still believe that it may be a good thing for you in the long run. Now he can find himself all alone without you or the kids. I know you've heard it a million times but I'll say it again. Patience. Now is when the real work is going to begin. Continue to be the strong woman you are.
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford
Grace- How are you doing today? I am so sorry for all that you are going through right now but Sir and BT are right...things will get better. You are already are one amazingly strong (physically and emotionally) lady. It is going to be like you have super powers when you get to the other side of this.
Try to look toward your future as one of the adventures you read about. I know it will be interesting to find out what happens in the next chapter.
All that being said, I will breathe before I speak, when I am angry. Then I will speak it anyway. I have been to full of sh!t for too long. He is not more worthy than I am.
Kudos for this mindset Grace.
Honesty can never be wrong. I trust that you are wise enough to know that a steady stream of "I'm pissed at you" will ultimately be unproductive. But sometimes you do have to call it like you see it.
There is NEVER a reason to compromise our integrity to win back the affections of a mixed up and wandering spouse.
Just don't forget the love as well.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
