Has your H ever said that he didn't love you anymore?
He has never said this. For 6 months after the S, he would say "I do you you" from time to time. At 1 year post-S, he mumbled "Love you" at the end of a phone call or so I thought I heard. I don't think I misheard because I wasn't even expecting to hear it.
Actuall, I have been thinking lately that I should say it. I haven't been saying ILY in a long while. I said it a few times around the time he said "Love you" in that above-mentioned phone call.
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During our 1st seperation I didn't feel as if I loved or was attracted to my husband, but I learned different. I never told him this. Now he is having the same feelings for me.
Do you think there is OW? Even if he said he doesn't love you or is not attracted to you, it's very possible he's going through what you wnet through during that 1st S. It will take time for him to realize what you realized. Guess what, I think you have an advantage in having gone thorugh what you did. It can help you figure out what is going through his mind in order to help you come up with good solution approaches.
