Hi everyone, I'm back. First I want to thank my special cheerleaders, or angels (which ever the case) for coming to my rescue. Secondly, I owe an apology to the people that controls the spamming---or whatever it is. I honestly did not know what I did (and I honestly don't know what spamming is, but I will try not to do it anymore).

I was up half the night in my excitement thinking I was helping some people who were like me and could not honestly afford books that they so desperately need at that moment. Also, I really, really wanted all the men who were LBH to get that free email information that would help them understand females better.

At first, I thought I had posted too much at one time. I kept looking for an explanation. I tried to email the DB moderators but got no response. I thought my email was in my profile, that was how one of the cheerleaders found me. So I was up the rest of the night trying to figure out how to make contact or what I did wrong. I hope you will overlook my ignorance b/c they did not have words like "spamming" in my language as I was growing up. I have heard the word but did not know I was doing the deed. I truly wanted only to help get the word out and hopefully save a marriage or two.

The funny thing (or sad) is that I first thought I had been banned b/c I had come down too hard on a man I had recently posted to. After reading what a sweet little grandmother I am (lol) I am kind of embarrased to tell you any difffert, but like some other people, (I shall leave nameless), I can talk a bit sharp when I feel it is needed, (just ask my kids). In this case, I tried to be gentle at first, but he kept whimping out, so I thought he needed a switch to his behind and told to step up and be a man.....so that is what I did (in so many words). However, I suppose that didn't have anything to do with being banned at all.

I have seen many folks recommend certain web sites, so it must have been the price on the books issue.......for that I do apologize b/c I did not stop to think that Michelle's business would probably not benefit from "used book" profits. Now, I feel pretty stupid.......I think I now know what spamming must be! Hummmmmm........live and learn.

Anyway, again thanks to you who went to bat for me and to you who allowed me another chance.

Sandi2



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