If you love them, set them free...

[mymonkeybug]

I am sorry you have to go through these classes, they sound like a waste of time for you all anyway.

I am very sympathetic to how you feel about the OM being with your kids. My H still insists there isn't anyone else, which could be true, but if there was and it was known and my kids were around her...well let's just say for me that all DB'ing would probably go out the window. Mainly because it is too damn soon and the kids should not be subjected to that nonsense anyway, I feel the OM/OW stuff is too confusing for the kids especially the younger they are.