You are right, I didn;t expect him to know I went though, so I didn't consider it would be pushing him away.
But you have to understand as crazy as it sounds this was very controlled for me, pre all this junk I would have gone in and dragged him out by the ear for still being there at 3 am. He did send me a text from work today saying just to let you know I am at work or did you already drive by to check....
Me~34 H~38 D6.5
EA/PA-DEC.07
Moved out~Apr.13,08 Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08 No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009